One more thing, THANKS to all of you that have offered up your support, prayers, and kind words! I have truly been blessed by so many here in the "blogging world!"
Many blessings,
Illness sets is ...
As if me being laid up on the couch feeling nauseous all day wasn't enough, Princess JF seems to have caught a stomach bug! She told me yesterday at lunch that her tummy hurt, and I figured she just didn't want to eat lunch. About an hour later she climbed up on my lap and was burning up. Super Dad was supposed to work late yesterday, but when Princess JF threw up around 5pm, I called him and asked him to come home ... I couldn't handle it alone since I was already feeling bad myself! She seemed fine around 8:30pm last night ... dancing around with Princess JL after her medicine kicked in. Went to bed, then woke up this morning ... with a fever of 102 again. So, we've been taking it easy in bed. She had a nice bath while I showered, and then some more medicine and a piece of toast. We put in a movie and then she fell asleep. Princess JL let us sleep for about 45 minutes ... and now they're both finishing up the movie we started. Her fever has come down some, and hopefully this is only a 24 hour bug. The thing is ... who gets it next? Anyone? Everyone? My husband is worried because he "can't afford" for me to catch it?! I don't know that I 'd really notice if I had it anyways ... other than a fever I guess!
One more thing, THANKS to all of you that have offered up your support, prayers, and kind words! I have truly been blessed by so many here in the "blogging world!"
Many blessings,
One more thing, THANKS to all of you that have offered up your support, prayers, and kind words! I have truly been blessed by so many here in the "blogging world!"
Many blessings,
To explain my absence ...
I can't believe I have been "absent" from my computer for the past 3 or 4 days. My husband kept asking if I wanted to get on ... but I just couldn't bring myself to sit in this chair yet. Explanation coming.
First though, I was given the heads up of a great giveaway blog and thought you guys might be interested ... you can find out more about it here: Fun and Free Give Aways
Secondly, I was asked by a reader what all the buttons under my "Earn Extra Cash" title represent ... so here's the answer to that ... Affiliates! Once I find a way to earn extra cash I grab a button (or make my own in some instances) so that I can share with my readers. Many of them offer an incentive for referrals ... hence the reason I go ahead and place a button on my site ... to try and bring in a few extra bucks. So far, it's paid off a bit. I would love to go "ad-free" but my donations just aren't enough to keep me going yet! : )
Finally ... my absence. Well, let me begin with these verses from Psalm 139:
I searched and searched looking for answers to our recent circumstances. I read about how God never makes mistakes, how He never tempts us with more than we can handle (1 Corinthians 10:13), and how He always knows what He's doing. I do believe in all of this. In fact, we sang a song at church Sunday that simply said,
It totally hit home for me this past weekend. I told God that I completely trust in Him and will not question His plan for my life ... and I prayed this as I prepared to take a pregnancy test this past Thursday ... and repeated it after seeing the positive results. Yes, we are now expecting baby #5! But, do I question His plan for my life? No way? Do I think He's got the wrong family? Nope. Does He know what's He's doing? Of course! I have no doubt that this was God's plan for us all along.
I was very scared to tell my parents because of my mother's reaction to baby #4 (she wasn't too happy ... although she adores each of my children). So, I stressed over it for 2 days at her side, but saw an opportunity when my sister came over to visit while we were at my mom's. My mother was actually very excited! She wanted another grandchild (or baby to hold) but knew my brother and sister were done (my brother is a single dad of 4 boys and my sister is more career oriented than I with 2 children ... all she says he can handle). We told a couple of close friends and my in-laws ... so I figured it was safe to go ahead and blog about it. Everyone is excited and supportive.
We asked each of them to simply be happy and support us because we know we'll receive plenty of criticism from the "general public" as well as some of our own family members. I don't really care what others think ... but I get tired of "Don't ya'll know what causes that?" My answer: "Yes, and we're obviously pretty good at it!" And the other one, "Do ya'll need a TV in the bedroom?" We have 7 TV's in our home ... every bedroom and two of the three living areas. But, I, particularly, don't like television. We mainly use our TVs to watch DVDs. So, to those people I simply say,
Now, our biggest challenge is Princess JF! She has been telling me for 2 months that I was pregnant and I kept telling her to stop saying that! She asks me constantly if the baby is coming yet. Can she help it out? What are we going to name it? Etc, etc! Wow! It's going to be a LONG 9 months! : )
Other than the fact that I am one of the few that develops "ptyalism" which is excessive salivation during pregnancy, I would probably be feeling fine. This "disorder" makes me feel nauseous ALL DAY! I've had it with every single pregnancy and this is what made me positive that I was indeed expecting! I can't stand it ... but I keep telling myself "I can do this!"
So, it looks like I'm only 5-6 weeks along (I wish I was one of those that didn't know until I was 6 months along)! According to the internet, I am due around September 23 (our 14th anniversary is on Sept 17 and our oldest daughter, Drama Queen, turns 13 on the 21st). BTW ... all of our kids are excited and "up for the challenge."
My mom reminded me today of the three failed attempts to have my husband's vasectomy done (read more about this failed goal here ... #5) ... it all works according to God's plan. I kept telling Super Dad that we weren't supposed to have that procedure done for some reason, but never in my life have I ever imagined having 5 kids! But, God is awesome, and though we struggle financially, God always provides and we continue to believe that He will still carry us through this as well. He is faithful!
First though, I was given the heads up of a great giveaway blog and thought you guys might be interested ... you can find out more about it here: Fun and Free Give Aways
Secondly, I was asked by a reader what all the buttons under my "Earn Extra Cash" title represent ... so here's the answer to that ... Affiliates! Once I find a way to earn extra cash I grab a button (or make my own in some instances) so that I can share with my readers. Many of them offer an incentive for referrals ... hence the reason I go ahead and place a button on my site ... to try and bring in a few extra bucks. So far, it's paid off a bit. I would love to go "ad-free" but my donations just aren't enough to keep me going yet! : )
Finally ... my absence. Well, let me begin with these verses from Psalm 139:
Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O LORD.
You hem me in—behind and before; you have laid your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.
-Psalm 139:4-6
I searched and searched looking for answers to our recent circumstances. I read about how God never makes mistakes, how He never tempts us with more than we can handle (1 Corinthians 10:13), and how He always knows what He's doing. I do believe in all of this. In fact, we sang a song at church Sunday that simply said,
I will trust, I will obey,
I will follow you wherever, come what may.
It totally hit home for me this past weekend. I told God that I completely trust in Him and will not question His plan for my life ... and I prayed this as I prepared to take a pregnancy test this past Thursday ... and repeated it after seeing the positive results. Yes, we are now expecting baby #5! But, do I question His plan for my life? No way? Do I think He's got the wrong family? Nope. Does He know what's He's doing? Of course! I have no doubt that this was God's plan for us all along.
I was very scared to tell my parents because of my mother's reaction to baby #4 (she wasn't too happy ... although she adores each of my children). So, I stressed over it for 2 days at her side, but saw an opportunity when my sister came over to visit while we were at my mom's. My mother was actually very excited! She wanted another grandchild (or baby to hold) but knew my brother and sister were done (my brother is a single dad of 4 boys and my sister is more career oriented than I with 2 children ... all she says he can handle). We told a couple of close friends and my in-laws ... so I figured it was safe to go ahead and blog about it. Everyone is excited and supportive.
We asked each of them to simply be happy and support us because we know we'll receive plenty of criticism from the "general public" as well as some of our own family members. I don't really care what others think ... but I get tired of "Don't ya'll know what causes that?" My answer: "Yes, and we're obviously pretty good at it!" And the other one, "Do ya'll need a TV in the bedroom?" We have 7 TV's in our home ... every bedroom and two of the three living areas. But, I, particularly, don't like television. We mainly use our TVs to watch DVDs. So, to those people I simply say,
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
-Matthew 7:1-3
Now, our biggest challenge is Princess JF! She has been telling me for 2 months that I was pregnant and I kept telling her to stop saying that! She asks me constantly if the baby is coming yet. Can she help it out? What are we going to name it? Etc, etc! Wow! It's going to be a LONG 9 months! : )
Other than the fact that I am one of the few that develops "ptyalism" which is excessive salivation during pregnancy, I would probably be feeling fine. This "disorder" makes me feel nauseous ALL DAY! I've had it with every single pregnancy and this is what made me positive that I was indeed expecting! I can't stand it ... but I keep telling myself "I can do this!"
So, it looks like I'm only 5-6 weeks along (I wish I was one of those that didn't know until I was 6 months along)! According to the internet, I am due around September 23 (our 14th anniversary is on Sept 17 and our oldest daughter, Drama Queen, turns 13 on the 21st). BTW ... all of our kids are excited and "up for the challenge."
My mom reminded me today of the three failed attempts to have my husband's vasectomy done (read more about this failed goal here ... #5) ... it all works according to God's plan. I kept telling Super Dad that we weren't supposed to have that procedure done for some reason, but never in my life have I ever imagined having 5 kids! But, God is awesome, and though we struggle financially, God always provides and we continue to believe that He will still carry us through this as well. He is faithful!
Manic Monday
If you could have a servant come to your house every day for one hour, what would you have them do? Laundry. With 6 people in the house we go through tons of laundry ... especially since my 4 year old changes three or four or more times a day! I don't mind the washing & drying as much as the hanging, folding and putting up.
Has your life ever been changed by an apparently random occurrence? It seems most of life's occurrences are "random" ... none of us can plan every event of our day. Meaning, it was random that I noticed my husband back in high school as he walked passed my best friend's house. It's random that I wrote the CL ad that got us this house. Most recently, it was random that we chose the closest church to our new home to attend ... and some old friends from high school attended and we've been able to form great friendships very quickly.
You're having dinner with several friends and acquaintances. They all criticize a close friend of yours (not knowing he/she is a friend). The criticism is unjustified. What would you do? I would stand up for the friend. I'm not afraid of confrontation. In fact, I had something similar happen to me recently (I was the one being spoken about to a friend that the one gossiping was unaware of our relationship). The friend told me about it, I took it to elders of the church (where the offense occurred) and it became my story against hers ... because my friend didn't think she should speak up and say something. This began our journey to leaving that church!
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Thurday Thirteen #4 - Money Making Programs
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1 - Project Payday - (this is where I've generated the most so far & the easiest to do ... although I do suggest creating a new email address ... I've signed up for so many things this week I'm not sure which one has stared sending me spam ... before creating the new email account. There is also a lot of information to sort through and requires a bit of work to get used to ... but it has worked for me so far) 2 - Blogsvertise 3 - Cash Crate 4 - ClixSense 5 - Fully Plugged 6 - Fusion Cash 7 - Freepay 8 - Gold Affiliate Program 9 - Green Back Street 10 - Hits4Pay 11 - Inbox Dollars 12 - Send Earnings 13 - Survey Scout |
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The testing ...
Figured I should update the "World" on the testing today. We got up extra early (like 6am) to make sure everyone ate, bathed, and got dressed in plenty of time to allow for traffic. The two princesses were the last two for us to get out of bed and dress ... and we packed them a breakfast to go to allow them more sleeping time. We left the house in record time and got to the testing facility in no time ... in fact, we were 45 minutes early! Better than our normal arrival times everywhere else, with getting everyone ready (including two picky girls: Drama Queen and Princess JF), having to get myself into gear (remember ... mornings and I don't go well together), and simply getting everyone into the van and strapped into seats ... we hardly ever get anywhere earlier than 10 minutes late! (Does that even make sense?) : )
Anyways ... we waited around a while before going in, prepping Prince W really. I reminded him of today's daily quote from the blog (which was perfect for the occasion ... God is so great) ... over and over again. We are currently going through a "Connect" campaign at church and were all given fluorescent green bracelets to wear that say "Connect" on them, so I told him if he needed help to look at that, "connect" with God, and pray for wisdom. Drama Queen has taken tests before since she's in Jr High, I wasn't as worried about her obviously. We got inside, checked them both in, found their classrooms, got another wristband to wear (I got two), did a quick bathroom break, and then I was on my way back out with Super Dad and the two princesses.
We decided to go walk the nearby mall and wait the three hours we were told it would take. Got there at 9am and, of course, none of the stores were open ... but at least we could sit in the heat of the mall and watch all the mall walkers make their rounds! We walked a bit until the stores finally started opening at 10am, and then went to the book store. We were in the book store for 10 minutes when the phone rang ... Prince W was done. Uh-oh ... was this good or bad? I mean, I told him to not worry too much about the ones he didn't know, skip to the ones you do and come back. Had he skipped though the whole test? As we were piling in the van to go get him, Drama Queen called, she too was done. OK then, maybe all they really needed was an hour! (WHEW!!)
We picked them up, and headed home ... it was only 10:30am. Stopped by the library on the way home, grabbed some sandwich stuff at the store, and came home to eat lunch. Since I was up late on the blog (*wink*), I ate, laid on the couch, and slept through an entire movie? Not even sure what they watched. I was awake when they were deciding what to watch, but never even saw the movie go into the DVD player! Nap was perfect and just what I needed!
Nevertheless, I was glad to get through the testing without a breakdown ... from me or Prince W! I was pretty worried, especially when it came time to leave him. But, all in all, it went well. He said they were given "scantron" type cards to fill out ... which he had never experienced ... but that some of the others didn't know how to utilize either so it was explained. It was mainly a reading comprehension test, and both said it was easy ... just long. I guess we'll see how "easy" when the grades come in! : )
Anyways ... we waited around a while before going in, prepping Prince W really. I reminded him of today's daily quote from the blog (which was perfect for the occasion ... God is so great) ... over and over again. We are currently going through a "Connect" campaign at church and were all given fluorescent green bracelets to wear that say "Connect" on them, so I told him if he needed help to look at that, "connect" with God, and pray for wisdom. Drama Queen has taken tests before since she's in Jr High, I wasn't as worried about her obviously. We got inside, checked them both in, found their classrooms, got another wristband to wear (I got two), did a quick bathroom break, and then I was on my way back out with Super Dad and the two princesses.
We decided to go walk the nearby mall and wait the three hours we were told it would take. Got there at 9am and, of course, none of the stores were open ... but at least we could sit in the heat of the mall and watch all the mall walkers make their rounds! We walked a bit until the stores finally started opening at 10am, and then went to the book store. We were in the book store for 10 minutes when the phone rang ... Prince W was done. Uh-oh ... was this good or bad? I mean, I told him to not worry too much about the ones he didn't know, skip to the ones you do and come back. Had he skipped though the whole test? As we were piling in the van to go get him, Drama Queen called, she too was done. OK then, maybe all they really needed was an hour! (WHEW!!)
We picked them up, and headed home ... it was only 10:30am. Stopped by the library on the way home, grabbed some sandwich stuff at the store, and came home to eat lunch. Since I was up late on the blog (*wink*), I ate, laid on the couch, and slept through an entire movie? Not even sure what they watched. I was awake when they were deciding what to watch, but never even saw the movie go into the DVD player! Nap was perfect and just what I needed!
Nevertheless, I was glad to get through the testing without a breakdown ... from me or Prince W! I was pretty worried, especially when it came time to leave him. But, all in all, it went well. He said they were given "scantron" type cards to fill out ... which he had never experienced ... but that some of the others didn't know how to utilize either so it was explained. It was mainly a reading comprehension test, and both said it was easy ... just long. I guess we'll see how "easy" when the grades come in! : )
A bit worried ...
I should really be in bed right now ... we have an early morning. Since we homeschool, we take a pretty laid back approach to our mornings around here (I am not by any means a "morning person"). Anyways, tomorrow we have to be in a city about 45 minutes from home by 8:30am to register for a "benchmark" test for my older two children. This new school we are currently involved with requires this. I am not sure how often ... and I'm praying not too much due to our current "transportation dilemmas." My husband had to take the day off tomorrow just so we could get hem there! Not cool at all! But, we really don't have a choice if we want them to continue with this program.
I am torn because I am one of "those" adamantly against standardized tests. The fact that they will be subjected to them is enough reason for me to dislike the program, but it is well outweighed by the fact that my kids are enjoying the curriculum! That's a pretty big deal right there! They like the way the program is designed (for the most part) and they are actually learning!
Herein lies my biggest worry though, Prince W has never been tested like this. He was pulled from public school in the first grade and has been homeschooled ever since (he is now in the 6th grade). Drama Queen has been taking tests through our co-op, so the stress should not be as bad. Prince W, on the other hand, is very sensitive and does not handle stress well (like his mother). So, I'm a bit worried about them! We have been praying for strength for our "little" Prince, and we pray they both do well tomorrow. This counts as a big part of their nine weeks grade.
The test runs for 3 hours, quite a way to be "thrown into" the idea of testing when you've never been exposed. I realize they will eventually need the practice of this sort of testing ... I just wish we had a bit more time to plan. Due to our move and the email addresses just being changed last month, we were only told about the test last Wednesday ... while others had plenty of fair warning! Nevertheless, here's praying all goes well tomorrow!
I am torn because I am one of "those" adamantly against standardized tests. The fact that they will be subjected to them is enough reason for me to dislike the program, but it is well outweighed by the fact that my kids are enjoying the curriculum! That's a pretty big deal right there! They like the way the program is designed (for the most part) and they are actually learning!
Herein lies my biggest worry though, Prince W has never been tested like this. He was pulled from public school in the first grade and has been homeschooled ever since (he is now in the 6th grade). Drama Queen has been taking tests through our co-op, so the stress should not be as bad. Prince W, on the other hand, is very sensitive and does not handle stress well (like his mother). So, I'm a bit worried about them! We have been praying for strength for our "little" Prince, and we pray they both do well tomorrow. This counts as a big part of their nine weeks grade.
The test runs for 3 hours, quite a way to be "thrown into" the idea of testing when you've never been exposed. I realize they will eventually need the practice of this sort of testing ... I just wish we had a bit more time to plan. Due to our move and the email addresses just being changed last month, we were only told about the test last Wednesday ... while others had plenty of fair warning! Nevertheless, here's praying all goes well tomorrow!
If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.
-James 1:5
Another one ... Blogvertise
OK ... I told you I was still on the lookout! I came across this new site for Bloggers and Advertisers alike. It, too, is another simple process. Blogsvertise Advertisers want to simply talk about their product or service on your blog. In exchange for your writings, Blogsvertise will compensate you via PayPal for each entry in which you mention the advertiser's product or service. Simple! All you need is a blog to get started! Once approved, you will be emailed about your writing assignments. Check out Blogsvertise with me and we'll see how it goes?!
WFMW: Extra cash profits
Only two days ago I wrote about some new concepts I was trying in order to generate a bit of extra cash. I continue to reap the benefits of these new ventures! Although small in amounts, everything adds up and its sure making my PayPal account look much better than the $2 that's been sitting there for the past eight or none months!In just the few days since I signed up with these companies (most of them I stared with on Friday ... others I've added over the past few days) these are the ones that have actually generated money "in" so far:
# 1 - Project Payday: This one was super quick with the first payout for the initial offer. It cost me $1.88 to join, by ordering some trial offer "blogging tool kit" (I figured it might be decent reading). Then, within 24 hours I received my rebate payout from Project Payday in my PayPal account. Simple! Today I generated another $7.50. "Chump change" maybe .... but that will buy a week's worth of milk for our family!!
#2 - Send Earnings: How easy is it to read a few emails? That's all I've done on this site, as well a few surveys, but no offers yet (I want to generate a bit more to "play with" in my PayPal account before signing up for any trials requiring credit cards or up front costs). They do have a bit of a high payout at $30, but it doesn't take long to get to that amount depending on how often you read emails, take surveys, play games or complete offers. Again, Send Earnings is easy money.
#3 - Fully Plugged: Similar to Send Earnings, you simply need to read emails, complete offers and take surveys. Earn $3 per referral after they complete at least one offer. Again, a high payout of $30 before you can request payment, but Fully Plugged is another simple concept.
**#4 - Pay Per Post: Although I have yet to generate a pay out from Pay Per Post, they do seem to offer the most lucrative way to monetize your blog! All they want is for you blog about the things you love! Now, they do require a certain number of posts and an "older than" blog (of which neither have I ascertained yet) ... but they make their referral program available to any one while they wait for eligibility. I'm thinking it may pay well enough once I can actually start blogging and getting paid for posts!**
Well, that's What Works For Me this Wednesday. I need desperately to feel like I'm making a contribution to our family budget ... and these concepts and some others ... have at least helped me feel like I'm at least trying as I sit here at home eating my "bonbons"! : )
Want to read more great tips, visit Works for Me Wednesday.
Tackle it Tuesday: My desk finally
OK ... I finally HAD to get to my desk. I simply couldn't handle it anymore! All the school books stacked on the corner were quite a nuisance. Not to mention, the papers Princess JF had stacked on my desk were simply overtaking everything else! So, I got it looking at least a bit better. I still need to get in each little cubby and organize it ... but I can now get to my desktop and I can grab a teacher guide without the whole stack falling down on me! Here are my before and after shots:
Out of desperation ...
... spurs opportunity. I keep seeing all this websites promising you money for reading emails, completing offers, etc ... so, out of desperation, I started signing up for some of them. I opened a new email account specifically for this reason at mail.com and downloaded RoboForm to get started. I began researching various sites and TRIED to stay away from the scammers. So far, everything seems to be on the up and up with the companies I found to join. I did my research and am praying everything continues to go well!
Anyways ... you can see some of the buttons for these programs under the "earn extra cash" category to the right ... or you can read a bit more about them on another blog I started here: Pajama Money - make money from your pajamas! I was honestly excited this weekend to receive two payouts, one from Project Payday and one from SendEarnings. Thus, I am assured they really can work for you!!
Also, I wanted to thank my first "buy me a newspaper" donor!! So, thanks to "QtW" ... you know who you are! I was so delighted! (My husband got his first one within days ... so at least now I can brag too)! But, honestly, thank you! You have no idea how much that really meant to me!
OK ... I tried to not make this sound like an advertisement ... but I really wanted to let everyone know about what I've found! I'll, of course, keep looking and post more as I find them! Good luck to you in your quest for a better financial future!
Anyways ... you can see some of the buttons for these programs under the "earn extra cash" category to the right ... or you can read a bit more about them on another blog I started here: Pajama Money - make money from your pajamas! I was honestly excited this weekend to receive two payouts, one from Project Payday and one from SendEarnings. Thus, I am assured they really can work for you!!
Also, I wanted to thank my first "buy me a newspaper" donor!! So, thanks to "QtW" ... you know who you are! I was so delighted! (My husband got his first one within days ... so at least now I can brag too)! But, honestly, thank you! You have no idea how much that really meant to me!
OK ... I tried to not make this sound like an advertisement ... but I really wanted to let everyone know about what I've found! I'll, of course, keep looking and post more as I find them! Good luck to you in your quest for a better financial future!
Manic Monday
If you had to be named after one of the 50 states, which would it be?
If I HAD to be named after one ... I guess I'd go with Montana ... sounds like a halfway decent "name for a person."
Where do you go for advice?
The Bible. No one can offer up better advice than God!
What is the sickest you've ever been?
Hmmm ... I think I got the flu pretty bad once a few years back. But, the worst had to be when I had my 4 wisdom teeth and two molars cut out while I was pregnant with baby #3. Since I was pregnant I had to have a local anesthetic and my meds weren't too strong. I was throwing up blood for three days and couldn't eat a thing! It was awful!
Spiritual Sunday - Trials
Today’s verse is perfect for the week we’ve had:
I’ve talked about God testing us the past few weeks and we learn that God asks us to test Him in only one area: our finances! Ouch! How that can hurt in today’s world! Nonetheless, we know through scripture that we will face trials and temptations. Jesus himself tells us in John 16:33
Whether we face illness, financial despair, disappointment, etc … we should look to the Bible for our peace and understanding through every situation. Romans 5:3-5 tells us:
The Word teaches us to rejoice in our trails and to thank God because we know that we will grow through the circumstances. We must understand that trials may test our faith, but our faith tested can bring out the best we have to give to God. Thus meaning, our tribulations work FOR us and not AGAINST us. They help us to mature and grow in our walk with Christ.
How often do we need patience, yet know better than to pray for it. I like the line in “Evan Almighty” where Morgan Freeman (God) says,”
If we truly wish to triumph through our trials we must learn to “let go and let God.” We must have the patience and faith to allow God to move in the situation. Something that seems impossible for most of us! It’s hard sometimes to hand it all over to God in a world where most of us like to just be “in control.” We must know that, ultimately, everything works for good according to God’s will … not our own.
Finally, we must simply ask for the wisdom and knowledge required to get us through the time. God tells us to ask for wisdom, but the knowledge can only be gained though studying His word. We can gain wisdom through our life experiences and sought through prayer, but the knowledge of the sword will only be learned when it is studied and applied to our everyday life. Accordingly, we should pray in faith, without ceasing, and without doubt that God alone can move mountains.
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.
- James 1:2-3
I’ve talked about God testing us the past few weeks and we learn that God asks us to test Him in only one area: our finances! Ouch! How that can hurt in today’s world! Nonetheless, we know through scripture that we will face trials and temptations. Jesus himself tells us in John 16:33
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
Whether we face illness, financial despair, disappointment, etc … we should look to the Bible for our peace and understanding through every situation. Romans 5:3-5 tells us:
Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.
The Word teaches us to rejoice in our trails and to thank God because we know that we will grow through the circumstances. We must understand that trials may test our faith, but our faith tested can bring out the best we have to give to God. Thus meaning, our tribulations work FOR us and not AGAINST us. They help us to mature and grow in our walk with Christ.
How often do we need patience, yet know better than to pray for it. I like the line in “Evan Almighty” where Morgan Freeman (God) says,”
Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prayed for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other?
If we truly wish to triumph through our trials we must learn to “let go and let God.” We must have the patience and faith to allow God to move in the situation. Something that seems impossible for most of us! It’s hard sometimes to hand it all over to God in a world where most of us like to just be “in control.” We must know that, ultimately, everything works for good according to God’s will … not our own.
Finally, we must simply ask for the wisdom and knowledge required to get us through the time. God tells us to ask for wisdom, but the knowledge can only be gained though studying His word. We can gain wisdom through our life experiences and sought through prayer, but the knowledge of the sword will only be learned when it is studied and applied to our everyday life. Accordingly, we should pray in faith, without ceasing, and without doubt that God alone can move mountains.
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; 8he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.
- James 1:2-8
Friday Faves - Kitchen Gadget
My favorite kitchen gadget? I dunno. We don't have anything too complex ... just your basic small appliances. We cook dinner every night pretty much, but I've never put much thought into my favorite gadget while in the kitchen. Prince W likes the electric can opener (although Super Dad likes my mom's better since it is one of those you put on the can and it goes). Wait ... I know. My favorite gadget of all time has to be the hand mixer. What memories we have of running around licking all the chocolate and dough off those beaters. My own kids still do. It's the best part of baking ... licking the bowl and the beaters! : )
So ... here is my list:
#1 - Hand mixer
#2 - Electric can Opener
#3 - Juicer
#4 - Egg Separator
#5 - Colander : )
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So ... here is my list:
#1 - Hand mixer
#2 - Electric can Opener
#3 - Juicer
#4 - Egg Separator
#5 - Colander : )
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Great Wal-mart finds
I don't know about everywhere else in the world, but here in Texas (and throughout much of the South I'm sure) there is a Wal-mart on every corner it seems. For some reason, when I woke up this morning, Wal-mart was on my mind? Not sure why? I began to think about some of the things we have found or come across there (and, by the way, I counted seven within a 20 minute drive in any direction from our home ... the closest being only 2 minutes up the street), but ... anyways ... back to our great Wal-mart finds.
Let me first say, we all had a bit of "culture shock" when we moved into the new house and that entailed "changing Wal-marts" ... along with everything else! We are further from "our Wal-mart" and have to use the one around the corner simply because of convenience (and the rising cost of gas)! Man, do we miss ours though! They are like two completely differently store chains! Craziness!! We could walk into our old Wal-mart and make a game out of how many people we would see that we knew. We would place our "bets" before going in and had fun searching while inside to meet our guesses ... or we'd do our best to avoid people to be right! : ) We have yet to get to that point at the new Wal-mart ... give us some time.
If you are unaware, Wal-mart has everything under the sun (except our new one ... the variety isn't as good as our old one ... no fabric, limited scrapbooking materials, etc). Nevertheless, you can usually find everything you need there ... it being the one-stop shop! Clothes, food, crafts, car parts ... you name it! The clearance aisle is one of my favorite aisles in the store! You can find some great bargains there on occasion. But, nothing beats our most recent Random Act of Kindness received through a Wal-mart employee.
When my cousin, Sgt Sam Kelsey was killed last month, I made his mom a memory photo and wanted it to look better than my printer would put out, so I sent it to Wal-mart via the one hour photo lab online. My parents were headed up there and were going to pick it up. When my mom gave her name, the photo department cashier couldn't find her picture. Another cashier happened in and asked the name. She knew exactly where the picture was ... she had put it up in waiting. She gave the photo to my mom ... and with a tear in her eye she simply said, "No charge. We are grateful for his service." My mom took the picture, holding back her own tears, and quietly nodded with a polite, "Thank you." That lady had no idea the impression she left on me and my family that day! To her ... Thank you!
But, I believe the most precious "find" at our Wal-mart was, in some sort of way, a true friendship. It seemed that every time we ran into an old friend of mine from high school, and his family, was at our old Wal-mart. One time it was the local Target ... but it was at least 2 or 3 times a year at Wal-mart. We watched each other's kids grow up ... in the aisles of this store. We always exchanged/updated information ... cells numbers, emails, etc ... but we would always just wait until the next chance meeting at Wal-mart to speak again. Subsequently, when we began going to our new church ... we were pleased to learn that my friend and his family also attended there! Hence, we no longer needed to search the aisles of Wal-mart to continue our friendship with them ... we are able to fellowship with them weekly in God's house!
Let me first say, we all had a bit of "culture shock" when we moved into the new house and that entailed "changing Wal-marts" ... along with everything else! We are further from "our Wal-mart" and have to use the one around the corner simply because of convenience (and the rising cost of gas)! Man, do we miss ours though! They are like two completely differently store chains! Craziness!! We could walk into our old Wal-mart and make a game out of how many people we would see that we knew. We would place our "bets" before going in and had fun searching while inside to meet our guesses ... or we'd do our best to avoid people to be right! : ) We have yet to get to that point at the new Wal-mart ... give us some time.
If you are unaware, Wal-mart has everything under the sun (except our new one ... the variety isn't as good as our old one ... no fabric, limited scrapbooking materials, etc). Nevertheless, you can usually find everything you need there ... it being the one-stop shop! Clothes, food, crafts, car parts ... you name it! The clearance aisle is one of my favorite aisles in the store! You can find some great bargains there on occasion. But, nothing beats our most recent Random Act of Kindness received through a Wal-mart employee.
When my cousin, Sgt Sam Kelsey was killed last month, I made his mom a memory photo and wanted it to look better than my printer would put out, so I sent it to Wal-mart via the one hour photo lab online. My parents were headed up there and were going to pick it up. When my mom gave her name, the photo department cashier couldn't find her picture. Another cashier happened in and asked the name. She knew exactly where the picture was ... she had put it up in waiting. She gave the photo to my mom ... and with a tear in her eye she simply said, "No charge. We are grateful for his service." My mom took the picture, holding back her own tears, and quietly nodded with a polite, "Thank you." That lady had no idea the impression she left on me and my family that day! To her ... Thank you!
But, I believe the most precious "find" at our Wal-mart was, in some sort of way, a true friendship. It seemed that every time we ran into an old friend of mine from high school, and his family, was at our old Wal-mart. One time it was the local Target ... but it was at least 2 or 3 times a year at Wal-mart. We watched each other's kids grow up ... in the aisles of this store. We always exchanged/updated information ... cells numbers, emails, etc ... but we would always just wait until the next chance meeting at Wal-mart to speak again. Subsequently, when we began going to our new church ... we were pleased to learn that my friend and his family also attended there! Hence, we no longer needed to search the aisles of Wal-mart to continue our friendship with them ... we are able to fellowship with them weekly in God's house!
Gas: firstborn
Milk: an arm and a leg
Friendships: PRICELESS
"Sydney White"
Once upon a time, set deep in the woods of … Greek Row … a lonely brunette sat crying on a curb. Sydney White is a new fairy tale rendition of the ever popular, Snow White, with its own displaced “princess”, evil witch, seven “dorks,” and even the poisoned apple. This light-hearted romantic comedy is sure to win over the heart of every tween princess.
Sydney White (Amanda Bynes) is a strong willed tomboy raised by her plumber dad (John Schneider) after the death of her mother. As she prepares for college, she dreams of pledging the same sorority her late mother belonged to, Kappa Phi Nu. Upon arrival, Sydney obviously does not fit in with her brown hair and less than luxurious upbringing. As she continues through Rush she meets Tyler Prince (Matt Long) and quickly becomes hated by the evil Rachel Witchburn (Sara Paxton). She is soon “exiled” to the wet streets of Greek Row without a place to live, and befriends the seven “dorks” living in “The Vortex.” Each dork represents one of the seven dwarfs, such as Sneezy aka Lenny (Jack Carpenter) or Grumpy aka Gurkin (Danny Strong), and so on. Sydney and the seven dorks vow to take on the evil Witchburn by making a run for Student Council President, and endure the evil antics of her wrath. Witchurn becomes furious when she checks her “magic mirror” (her laptop) and learns that Sydney has just replaced her on the school’s Hot-or-Not list, making Sydney the “fairest in the land.” A poison apple even comes into play as Sydney’s Mac is destroyed by a computer virus. Prince Charming has to find the sleeping princess and help save the day!
Although the story line is predictable as it follows the traditional Snow White theme, the modern twist is well-received. The various groups of the college display stereotypical characters, yet it helps to portray the message of the movie. The correlations from the classical fairy tale to our modern world make for comical moments, such as the reference to Witchburn when the seven dorks pass by and proclaim, “Hi, Ho.”
Amanda Bynes is a tween sensation because of her humble, down to earth character. She presents herself as a real person rather than an untouchable matriarch. For tweens, having someone they can relate to is important. Kids have been able to watch Ms. Bynes progress through the years on shows such as The Amanda Show all the way up to her latest film, Hairspray. Nevertheless, the movie is set on a college campus, so be aware of its PG-13 rating due to “harsh” language at times, college hazing and party rituals, as well as some sexual innuendos.
Having three girls at home and being able to relate to Sydney White’s character, I found this movie quite enjoying. I also like to see movies with a positive message displayed so prominently throughout. Especially as it addresses issues faced during the troubling tweens and teens years, it’s important to remain yourself, stand up for what you believe, and simply accept others for who they are. The DVD hits stores shelves on January 22 or you can enter to win one of three copies on our Christian preteen site! We gave it 4.5 thumbs up (my toddlers couldn’t really vote on this one).
I don't follow politics ...
I don't like to watch the news, it simply depresses me. I don't follow politics as well as I should ... I just read through some headlines here and there. But, I found this on a blog as I was clicking around and found it interesting. It is a short speech Ron Paul gives on homeschooling. Check it out at Phat Mommy's blog here.
Thursday Thirteen #3: Lessons Learned from my Kids
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1 - Persistence. We are trying to get Princess JL to stop needing "potty breaks" in the middle of the night, so we cut off all drinks after 7pm. But, this does not stop her from coming in the room and saying, "Mommy, can I have a yogurt? Please? Thank you." And then she quickly turns and walks briskly away ... and continues until she figures out we aren't giving in. I have to admire her persistence though (and her manners)! :) 2 - Believe. Princes JF has such a huge imagination. She loves to have tea parties and, when she was 2, had a long list of imaginary friends. Oh how I wish I could be like her. If only my beliefs could carry me delightfully through the day as she allows hers to! 3 - Dream. Prince W loves to entertain (all the kids do ... but he more than the girls). He doesn't care if it's telling jokes, doing impersonations, singing, dancing, whatever he feels like ... he simply has the desire to entertain ... so he does. He has big dreams and I pray that he and his sisters all follow their hearts desires throughout their lives. 4 - Self-confidence. This is something I have always struggled with, but our Drama Queen has plenty of it! She is so sure of herself and I admire that about her. I do not want her to be conceited, although I do want her to be sure of herself and be strong enough to stand up for her beliefs and what she knows is right as she progresses into her teenage years. 5 - Frugality. When we won a new TV at a company Christmas party a year ago, my kids found more joy in the box than the new TV. They even slept in it for a night. It seems that my kids can always find greater joy in a box, paper plate, paper pieces, etc than in the toys or other items we actually pay money for! 6 - Openness. How hard is it for us, as adults, to open up to others? My youngest two (and the older two as well depending on the person) get such a kick out of telling others all about their day, showing off their toys, their rooms, etc. I try to remain such a private person, but my kids have no secrets ... they lay everything out on the table. No shame. 7 - Be fearless. "Evil Knievel" is a household name for us. Each of my kids has, at one time or another, proudly carried the nickname. Right now, it's our 2 year old, who seriously has no fear. She will jump off anything in the house, no matter how tall. She will defiantly shout "No!" to anyone who tries to discipline her (my parents, her aunt, uncle, whoever) ... she has absolutely no fear. With all my social anxieties, how I wish I could have an ounce of her fearlessness! 8 - Live life. My kids have no down time during the day it seems! Princess JF and JL can go all day without ceasing. If I had half the energy they did I could finish 5 projects a day. They seem to be relentless. "Mommy, do this with me." "Mommy, can we do that?" It's non-stop, but, unfortunately for them, Mommy is! : ( It seems nothing can stop them from living each day to its fullest and getting the most they can out of every moment. 9 - Be creative. Drama Queen recently decided to make some sort of invention out of grapefruit. I'm still not sure what it was, but I find pride in knowing she has the desire to create. Sometimes we need to step outside the box and create new things "just because." 10 - Be free. Princess JL loves to run around naked (although she's getting better about wearing clothes ... she still has no shame in running free). Princess JF and JL both enjoy running around the house, spinning, laughing, rolling on the ground ... just expressing themselves in whichever manner fits the moment. There is no more beautiful sound than children laughing. They truly know how to just be free in their self-expression and in life. 11 - Just breathe. We use a time out in the bedroom for discipline, one minute per year of age. Sometimes I have to take my own "Mommy time out" to just breathe and pray about the burdens I need to release. Funny how that works for both young and old. Although, my kids don't typically like their time outs as much as I enjoy mine! : ) 12 - Responsibility. Princess JF doesn't completely understand the difference between "on purpose" and "on accident" quite yet. When something happens she says, "It was on purpose, Mommy." I always have to correct her. But, without fail, she also tends to follow it with, "I'm sorry. It's all my fault!" Then she cries until I explain that it was an accident and she's not to blame. In our adult life we tend to look the other way and ignore those things for which we are responsible ... yet how easy it is to say, "I'm sorry. It's my fault." 13 -Unconditional love. Other than Christ, I have never experienced unconditional love the way I have from my children. When I cry, they cry. When I need a hug, they are there with arms wide open. When I'm upset, they try to make it better. I can get onto them one minute, and the next they are on my lap kissing and hugging all over me. I can do no wrong in their eyes (yet anyways) and they love me relentlessly at the start and end of the day ... no matter what! I truly love my kids! <3> I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. |
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WFMW: Living by Faith
I've sat here and pondered what "works for my me" for quite a while now, as I sift through the bleak update on our financial struggles from Super Dad. As I try to sort through our days trying to come up with a post for the day, I am brought back to our current situation and I wonder if anything works for me? Then, I am hit with the realization that "all things work for good" according to my God. I know that He tests us. Do I think this is from Him? I don't know, but I do know we will pass this one through our trust in Him.The only thing I can guarantee "works for me" on this Wednesday (and every day of my life) is my faith in Him and trusting in God to carry us through every trial, every situation. I know that as I study His Word and work towards an even better relationship with Christ, only He can handle the stress and burdens I carry. I have to give them up to Him and believe through faith that He will take care of it and He will tell me what to do.
I love you, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. I call to the LORD, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my enemies.
- Psalm 18: 1-3
I realize this may be a bit "out of the box" on WFMW ... but, as I mentioned before, it is all that I feel working for me at this moment as I try to hold things together.
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Tackle it Tuesday: My Blog
Okay, I really needed to tackle my desk today, but I got distracted trying to find a new 3 column layout for my blog here! I was happy with the last template, but I really needed the 3 columns! The first template I was using had 3 columns, but wouldn't work right in IE ... so I'm hoping this one does! If not, check out Firefox, it's much safer and quicker anyways! : )
So, there are still some tweaks to be made, but, for now, it's good to go. I can always finish customizing it later on tonight when everyone's in bed and I am allowed quiet to concentrate on the task at hand! Here is the screenshot of what it looked like before I started working on the new template today:
As for my desk I mentioned last Tuesday, I really need to get find some kind of order to it! I'm embarrassed to post pictures because it is so bad. Books on the corners and papers strewn across the top (my 4 year old loves to write and draw me pictures ... then she brings them all to me at my desk and sits them in front of me ... so I have quite a collection going). But ... hopefully ... more about that next week! :)
Manic Monday
Which sex do you think has it easier in our culture? Have you ever wished you were the opposite sex? Men. I don't know when the time will come for us women ... but it will come! Men are still higher paid, more respected, and can get away with things they should never be able to. And have I ever wanted to be the opposite sex ... all my life! I can't stand anything "girly" and other than the experience of pregnancy and being able to give life, I can't stand most things about being a girl ... hence the reason I have spent most of my life as a tomboy! : )
What books from your childhood would you like to share with your children?
I read ALL the time as a child. there are so many books I could share with my children. Right now though, I am simply trying to instill a love for reading within my kids ... and for now, that means not pushing books onto them, but allowing them to choose their own (although I must admit I do make suggestions along the way)!
What is one talent or skill you don't possess but always wanted?
Gosh ... there are so many! But, since I like the graphic design element of web design, I sure wish I could draw! That would open up such a new world of design for me! My dad and several of my cousin's are incredible artists ... but I can't even draw a circle well! :(
The Winds of Change
As I got on this morning and "checked my blog" as I do each day, I noticed the daily quote for the day,
UGH! Really? Do I HAVE to change? This almost ALWAYS means stepping out of my comfort zone and taking that leap of faith ... something, obviously, I'm not comfortable doing! So, I have to look at several different aspects of my life and find what changes need to happen. And, the toughest part is I have to be able to accept these changes without complaining or arguing, so says Philippians 2:13-15:
How hard that is going to be?! Nevertheless ... I am always up for a challenge! So, the first way I felt God pushing me was to get involved in a ministry in the church. We are still somewhat new to this church. When we moved into our new home, although only one town over from where we lived and went to church for over 5 years, it was time for us to move on from there too due to "not so good changes" taking place within the church. So, having only been at our new place of worship for about 10 weeks, I guess I was thinking I wasn't ready to "jump in." But, God obviously has other plans! At our previous church we had worked first with the college/young adult ministry and then moved into the youth and spent 4 years pouring into these guys' lives! It was very difficult for us to leave them. Now, I had once more been asked to fill a spot teaching 5th and 6th grade girls. Again, God is testing me because he knows how I struggle with girls, hence the reason He gave me three to raise! Here at home I have to endure make-overs, sleepovers, DRAMA, pink, flowers ... all the "girly" things I detest. Now, once again I am confronted with a situation that calls me into the unknown "world of the preteen girl." (Yes, I was even pushed into setting up the preteen girl website by God for several days through my dreams ... but I obeyed)! Hence the reason, I told them last night that I would indeed assist as a teacher for the girls, and have made one step closer to that "change" God has required of me.
What other changes are coming? It's scary, but I really don't know yet? I pray God doesn't ask me to have to pick up a phone and do something along those lines ... I can't stand talking on the phone. I've actually lost out on good paying web design jobs because I wouldn't pick up the phone and call someone! But, as I mentioned before, you know it's going to involve leaving my own "comfort zone" to step into a position for which God has called me. How can you say no when you know that is God's calling in your life ... and He's standing behind you pushing you into position? You can't!
Change alone is eternal, perpetual, immortal.I found it less than coincidental considering this was also what our sermon was about yesterday at church! Wow! Was God speaking directly to me again? Believe, me, I am not one for change (especially within myself), but I sure could feel God pushing me at church. This quote was just some form of confirmation for me!
- Arthur Schopenhauer
UGH! Really? Do I HAVE to change? This almost ALWAYS means stepping out of my comfort zone and taking that leap of faith ... something, obviously, I'm not comfortable doing! So, I have to look at several different aspects of my life and find what changes need to happen. And, the toughest part is I have to be able to accept these changes without complaining or arguing, so says Philippians 2:13-15:
for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose. Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.
How hard that is going to be?! Nevertheless ... I am always up for a challenge! So, the first way I felt God pushing me was to get involved in a ministry in the church. We are still somewhat new to this church. When we moved into our new home, although only one town over from where we lived and went to church for over 5 years, it was time for us to move on from there too due to "not so good changes" taking place within the church. So, having only been at our new place of worship for about 10 weeks, I guess I was thinking I wasn't ready to "jump in." But, God obviously has other plans! At our previous church we had worked first with the college/young adult ministry and then moved into the youth and spent 4 years pouring into these guys' lives! It was very difficult for us to leave them. Now, I had once more been asked to fill a spot teaching 5th and 6th grade girls. Again, God is testing me because he knows how I struggle with girls, hence the reason He gave me three to raise! Here at home I have to endure make-overs, sleepovers, DRAMA, pink, flowers ... all the "girly" things I detest. Now, once again I am confronted with a situation that calls me into the unknown "world of the preteen girl." (Yes, I was even pushed into setting up the preteen girl website by God for several days through my dreams ... but I obeyed)! Hence the reason, I told them last night that I would indeed assist as a teacher for the girls, and have made one step closer to that "change" God has required of me.
What other changes are coming? It's scary, but I really don't know yet? I pray God doesn't ask me to have to pick up a phone and do something along those lines ... I can't stand talking on the phone. I've actually lost out on good paying web design jobs because I wouldn't pick up the phone and call someone! But, as I mentioned before, you know it's going to involve leaving my own "comfort zone" to step into a position for which God has called me. How can you say no when you know that is God's calling in your life ... and He's standing behind you pushing you into position? You can't!
For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
- Ephesians 2:10
Spiritual Sunday: Our Faith
For each of us, standing steadfast in our faith can be a challenge. God has declared that we will be tested, but our perseverance through those trials and tribulations is what allows us to grow and mature in our walk with Christ. The entire chapter of Genesis 22 is a great story about how God tested Abraham, and yet he held on to His promise that he knew was to be fulfilled through his son, Isaac. Abraham prepared to sacrifice his only son atop the mountain, knowing that God had already promised him that he would be the father of many nations ... and Isaac was his only son. He still went as told, without question.
Do we, as Christians, do this? Do we allow ourselves to understand that God will test us on occasion (although not every trial is based on this) according to Geneses 22:1? Do we follow Jesus Christ daily, without question (Genesis 22:3,4)? Do we surrender ourselves to Him, and completely trust in Him to carry us through every situation (Genesis 22:5)? How do we completely trust in God?
Do we, as Christians, do this? Do we allow ourselves to understand that God will test us on occasion (although not every trial is based on this) according to Geneses 22:1? Do we follow Jesus Christ daily, without question (Genesis 22:3,4)? Do we surrender ourselves to Him, and completely trust in Him to carry us through every situation (Genesis 22:5)? How do we completely trust in God?
- worship God always (verse 5)
- walk with God confidently (verse 8)
- work for God continually (verse 9)
- wait on God courageously (verse 11)
- rejoice in God cheerfully (verse 12)
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.
- Hebrews 11:1
Every bit helps ... I guess
Another week in our bleak financial life. My husband says he thinks we are on our way up that hill out of the financial valley we've been in ... but I don't know. He tries to "protect me" from our money situation so that I don't get depressed about it. He thinks I'm completely fragile. I'm really not! I simply worry too much over it to the point of illness or depression ... so he doesn't let me in on any of it. And, considering I'm not the one working every day (outside the home) for the "big bucks", he handles all the bills, etc ... so I don't really know what's going on? I am the one home getting the mail ... which not only includes the bills, but the overdraft statements from the bank. How are we overdrawn? We don't go anywhere, do anything? But, still, once a week we get one?! See why I can't seem to find $2 to buy a newspaper ... hence not being able to really do the "coupon shopping" thing. Great concept ... if the paper/coupons were free (for the record ... our local stores don't all take printed coupons)!
Anyways, I figured I should update everyone on the "raise" Super Dad finally got. It wasn't what we were hoping for! I have already sent in a few applications for Super Dad of CL. We are keeping our ears open for anything closer to home. Basically though, they gave him a small amount, with an additional amount possible in 6 months. How does that help us now? He specifically told them we needed X amount a year to simply live "comfortably" (not meaning any lavish lifestyle ... just no weekly overdraft statements). When he was told the amount, he simply said thank you and walked away. UGH! He is really WAY TOO NICE for his own good! I've always told him this! He lets people walk all over him just to avoid conflict! Me on the other hand, I'm the complete opposite. I refuse to step down or let people take control over me (did I mention I have HUGE issues with authority). Now we are torn as to what to do because he actually likes some aspects of this job, but more importantly, we NEED him to stay here if we are going to have any chance at buying this house later on this year! Job stability is a huge plus in the mortgage industry. So, we are fervently praying and will let God lead us as we wait on Him. He would never steer us wrong, we just have to make sure we are listening to His will rather than our own when decision time comes!
Anyways, I figured I should update everyone on the "raise" Super Dad finally got. It wasn't what we were hoping for! I have already sent in a few applications for Super Dad of CL. We are keeping our ears open for anything closer to home. Basically though, they gave him a small amount, with an additional amount possible in 6 months. How does that help us now? He specifically told them we needed X amount a year to simply live "comfortably" (not meaning any lavish lifestyle ... just no weekly overdraft statements). When he was told the amount, he simply said thank you and walked away. UGH! He is really WAY TOO NICE for his own good! I've always told him this! He lets people walk all over him just to avoid conflict! Me on the other hand, I'm the complete opposite. I refuse to step down or let people take control over me (did I mention I have HUGE issues with authority). Now we are torn as to what to do because he actually likes some aspects of this job, but more importantly, we NEED him to stay here if we are going to have any chance at buying this house later on this year! Job stability is a huge plus in the mortgage industry. So, we are fervently praying and will let God lead us as we wait on Him. He would never steer us wrong, we just have to make sure we are listening to His will rather than our own when decision time comes!
Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground. For your name's sake, O LORD, preserve my life; in your righteousness, bring me out of trouble.On a good note though, I did notice that I will be getting a check from CafePress this next week! That's always fun! I like to play around with my Photoshop (which I should mention was given to me by a dear friend) brushes and fonts (I wish I could draw but I simply can't), so I upload a few things to CafePress and Zazzle and see what I can sell? I figure it doesn't cost me anything out of pocket and it couldn't hurt to try and bring in a few extra bucks here and there. So far, it hasn't been too bad. I sell at least one item a month (which doesn't calculate into much), but it adds up after a while. I've been doing it for almost two years now. Like I said, "every little bit helps ... I guess."
- Psalm 143:10-11
So ... I'm slacking today ...
It's 3:30pm in the afternoon and I still have not blogged today! What's up with that? I got on earlier and did some "piddly" things, as well as making sure my older two got their school work done. Then, I got off so that Princess JF could get on and play some "letter games" (with this great free program located here). After her, Prince W needed to do an hour of "study" online while Drama Queen was on the "student" computer upstairs ... so, I took a nap! : ) Now, my computer is free and I was noticing a recent project I put together in our living room ... and thought that maybe I could blog about it? Will it interest anyone? I dunno ... but I like to show it off! : )
Anyways, my dad was recently remodeling their dining area (he's always remodeling something in their home) and it involved tearing down an existing wall into the kitchen to make the dining area bigger (he made a nice long dinette set big enough for "most" of the family to fit). The wall had a "fake window frame" that passed from one room into the other. When we arrived, he had the wall torn down, with the window frame still attached. I asked him if he had plans for the window, to which he replied, "No?" So, I told him I wanted it. I immediately went home (after measuring each opening) and began working on what I wanted to put inside each frame. I bought some new papers to match our home decor, picked out 4 pictures of my kids, and got started.
Now, this was all done in preparation for the window, which I wanted up and displayed before my extended family was to come to my house that following weekend for our family Christmas. Thus, I had all the pieces done and my parents came over mid-week to help us clean and prepare for the 60+ people coming over, and I asked my dad where my window frame was (I had already called twice that week). He laughed and said he thought I was kidding! No, I wasn't kidding, I had already scrapped the pages to go inside!
Finally, on Friday, before the family affair on Saturday, my dad showed up with the window frame! I was finally able to put it all together! Drama Queen and I laid it all out and she helped me cut up cereal boxes to use as backing (have to be frugal here)! As I positioned the pieces into the openings, she taped them in place along the backside. Then, she and I positioned the cereal box cutouts along the back so that it was fully covered, and then stapled them along the sides. Super Dad put the hooks in the top that my dad so graciously included for hanging, and we hung it in a predetermined spot my mom and I had picked earlier.
It looked awesome when we were done .. or at least we thought so! :) My family really enjoyed it ... and, of course, I had a few people that wanted one for themselves. But, I must mention, like most things I put together (I take after my dad here) because I was in a hurry I did not get to finish the actual frame. I still want to add some word at the bottom with altered letters ... maybe "family" or "love" ... I dunno yet? I might finish the next time I haul all my scrapbooking stuff out! Did I mention ... my dad still has two more of these in his home ... and I can't wait until he decides these need to come down too! ~clap~
Anyways, my dad was recently remodeling their dining area (he's always remodeling something in their home) and it involved tearing down an existing wall into the kitchen to make the dining area bigger (he made a nice long dinette set big enough for "most" of the family to fit). The wall had a "fake window frame" that passed from one room into the other. When we arrived, he had the wall torn down, with the window frame still attached. I asked him if he had plans for the window, to which he replied, "No?" So, I told him I wanted it. I immediately went home (after measuring each opening) and began working on what I wanted to put inside each frame. I bought some new papers to match our home decor, picked out 4 pictures of my kids, and got started.
Now, this was all done in preparation for the window, which I wanted up and displayed before my extended family was to come to my house that following weekend for our family Christmas. Thus, I had all the pieces done and my parents came over mid-week to help us clean and prepare for the 60+ people coming over, and I asked my dad where my window frame was (I had already called twice that week). He laughed and said he thought I was kidding! No, I wasn't kidding, I had already scrapped the pages to go inside!
Finally, on Friday, before the family affair on Saturday, my dad showed up with the window frame! I was finally able to put it all together! Drama Queen and I laid it all out and she helped me cut up cereal boxes to use as backing (have to be frugal here)! As I positioned the pieces into the openings, she taped them in place along the backside. Then, she and I positioned the cereal box cutouts along the back so that it was fully covered, and then stapled them along the sides. Super Dad put the hooks in the top that my dad so graciously included for hanging, and we hung it in a predetermined spot my mom and I had picked earlier.
It looked awesome when we were done .. or at least we thought so! :) My family really enjoyed it ... and, of course, I had a few people that wanted one for themselves. But, I must mention, like most things I put together (I take after my dad here) because I was in a hurry I did not get to finish the actual frame. I still want to add some word at the bottom with altered letters ... maybe "family" or "love" ... I dunno yet? I might finish the next time I haul all my scrapbooking stuff out! Did I mention ... my dad still has two more of these in his home ... and I can't wait until he decides these need to come down too! ~clap~
Thursday Thirteen #2: Movies
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1 - Little Miss Sunshine - Funny movie, although the language isn't all that great! One line we use quite often (since we eat baked chicken almost daily) is when Grandpa "goes off" about the chicken ... we simply CLEAN IT UP in order to make use of it around here! : ) 2 - Nacho Libre - This movie had to "grow on me" to begin with, but then it became the ONLY movie Princess JL would sit and watch and go to sleep to ... so it was "worn out" quickly! 3 - Napoleon Dynamite - Another one of those "grow on you" movies. I had to watch it just to keep up with our youth group at church ... all the "Napoleonisms." Again, one my youngest two saw it, it became a daily ritual. Why do they like this movie? 4 - Hairspray - Our newest addition. The kids enjoy singing and dancing along with all the music! I go to bed and get up singing these songs! UGH!! 5 - Cinderella III - Princess JL likes anything "princess" ... so this is her most recent find in the DVD drawer! 6 - Caillou - I don't know if I like this little guy? He's mean to his sister and I have a hard enough time getting my kids to be civil to each other sometimes! 7 - Shrek the Third - Just another in the line of the green ogre. For Princess JF it was the original Shrek ... with Princess JL it's Shrek 3rd! 8 - LeapFrog Letter Factory - Now, this is a good one simply because of it's educational value. The two princesses learn volumes about phonics watching this program! I would recommend iit to those working on phonics and letter recognition. 9 - The Aristocats - Newly discovered in my parent's VHS collection! So, this is a "new movie" to the girls and they are enjoying wearing it out on the VCR (a new concept to them altogether0! 10 - Jeff Dunham: Arguing with Myself - Prince W's new Christmas DVD. I think they can probably do the entire routine without the DVD by now!! 11 - A Night at the Museum - Since it's on Starz right now ... we have to watch it every time it's on! I'm tired of it! 12 - The Holiday - This is a good romantic comedy. It's also been on one of the movie channels for the past month or so. I can watch a goo romantic comedy over and over again any day ... it's better than all the animation and "teen stars" I have to watch. 13 - The Benchwarmers - Something about this kind of comedy (and Jon Heder) draws my kids in? At least this one isn't that bad of a movie! **Wanna know which 13 TV shows are on our (what feels like) daily list? Read Super Dad's Thursday Thirteen!** |
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